When a loved one dies, you’ll have a lot on your mind. But paying off the debt a spouse left behind should not be one of them. Here’s what you need to know.
My husband had been dead less than a week when the first collections call came.
We didn t have any credit cards or loans, but there were a few lingering medical bills we hadn t paid largely because we were busy with more important matters.
When the caller asked for my husband and I explained he was dead, I got the courtesy condolences, followed by the question of whether I was his wife. It was time to pay up, I was nicely told. When I told them I needed to pay for the funeral first, they said goodbye, only to call back a few days later and a few days after that.
It s not uncommon for creditors to nudge grieving relatives into paying their deceased loved one s bills.
In case you find yourself in a similar situation, what you should know follows. Keep in mind that laws vary by state, so this article should not be considered specific advice for your situation.
For advice pertaining to your specific situation, seek out the help of a competent financial professional or estate attorney.
If you re wondering whether you re liable for your loved one s debt, the short answer is no. Debt does not get passed down to heirs.
Of course, creditors typically won t tell you that, and they are often depending on your sense of duty to pay off those debts. They may be kind and sympathetic, but ultimately their job is to cajole you into paying.
That said, there are exceptions to every rule. The Federal Trade Commission cites four instances in which you might be on the hook for a debt after your loved one dies:
Everyone else can rest assured they won t be responsible for paying Great-Aunt Helga s credit card balance once she leaves this earthly plane.
While you re generally not on the hook for your loved one s debt, the person s estate generally is. In other words, your loved one s remaining assets often must be used to pay your loved one s outstanding debts. Creditors may file claims against estate assets in court to help ensure those claims get paid.
As Money Talks News founder Stacy Johnson puts it in the video above:
When a person dies, their estate is born. And that estate settles up. It pays its debts, then distributes what s left to the heirs. If there s not enough to pay the debt, well, the lender loses.
If an estate doesn t have enough money to pay off creditors, it s considered insolvent. In that case, the unpaid debt should disappear. However, that won t stop some companies from calling you for payment, particularly if you re the surviving spouse.
The bottom line is this: Don t pay debts you don t owe. And when in doubt, talk it out with a lawyer.
A final note about estates: It s important to note that not all assets are considered part of an estate. Those excluded from an estate are technically known as non-probate assets. Typically, they include assets that have a beneficiary or are jointly owned.
In other words, you don t have to worry about your spouse s life insurance policy being wiped out to pay off his or her credit cards.
Generally, spouses aren t responsible for individual debt of a husband or wife. So if John Doe opened a credit card in his name alone, Jane Doe wouldn t be responsible for paying it off in most states.
That s because most states have adopted a property ownership system known as common law, according to the Internal Revenue Service.
The federal agency says of this system, The theory underlying common law is that each spouse is a separate individual with separate legal and property rights. Thus, as a general rule, each spouse owns and is taxed upon the income that he or she earns.
It s a different story if you live in one of the nine states that goes by what s known as community property law. In these states, if John Doe opens a credit card in his name, the debt becomes both John and Jane Doe s responsibility.
Spouses are considered to share debts in community property states, as the IRS puts it. The agency continues:
Depending on state law, creditors of spouses may be able to reach all or part of the community property, regardless of how it is titled, to satisfy debts incurred by either spouse.
The nine community property states are:
Some marriages in Alaska may also be community property unions, but it s optional, the IRS notes.
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